लड़का और लड़की के लिए शादी से पहले होने वाली समस्याएं

लड़का और लड़की के लिए शादी से पहले होने वाली समस्याएं

Shadi ka doosra naam hai problem. Shaadi ke baad sab kuch ghee shakkar nahin hota hai. Problems khade ho jaate hai har ek kadam par. Voh to rahi baad ki baat. Pehle shaadi tak to pahunche. Shadi ke pehle bhi kai problem hote hai aur voh mahila aur purush me alag alag hote hai. 

Boys ko hota hai ki achchi ladki mile aur ladki ko hota hai ki achcha pati mile. Ab “achcha” ka alag alag matlab nikal sakte hai, jaise ki “handsome”,  “well-settled”, “loving”, “beautiful” aadi aadi.  Aaj ke zamane me arranged marriage karne jaaye to agar ladka achcha nahin kama leta hai to bechara hawa me latakta reh jaayega kyonki koi ladki us ko pasand nahin karegi kyon na hero jaisa dikhta ho. Sab tarah ke qualifications dekhe jaate hai jaise aap shopping karne jaaye vaise.  Ladki ko problem hai ki us ko “decent” husband na mile to jindagi barbaad ho gayi aisa maanti hai. Khair, jaise taise karke shaadi tak baat pahunch gayi to aur samasya khade ho jaate hai shaadi ke bilkul pehle ke samay dauran.

Ladka: 

  • Ladke ke dimag me kai prashna khade ho jaate hai. 
  • Us ka self confidence kabhi hil dul jaata hai
  • Bhag daud aur tension ke kaaran voh chid chida ho sakta hai. 
  • Paise ke intzaam karne ke liye pareshani sehni padti hai
  • Shaadi ke arrangements ke baare me hone wali bivi ke saath discuss karne jaaye to vaad vivaad kyonki uski pasand ek, ladke ki pasand aur kuch aur gharwalo ki pasand aur kuch. 
  • Catering se leke flowers aur venues, sabhi ka hal laana padta hai jo sabhi ko achcha lage is tarah se. 

Ladki

  • Ladki ko jyaada pareshani yeh hai ki voh apna safe aur secure ghar chod ke jaa rahi hai aur voh kya naye ghar me accepted hogi aur set hogi? Is baat ka tension us ka vajan bhi kam kar deta hai aur aankho ke neeche dark circles bhi bana sakta hai. 
  • Health bigad sakta hai kyonki tension ki vajah se khaana bhi theek se nahin khaa paati hai. 
  • Bilkul thak jaati hai kapde kharid ne ke chakkar me, beautician ke trip me, card distribution me, vagairah vagairah. 
  • Is ke kaaran us ka mood bigad jaata hai aur rone bhi lagti hai ya to chid chida ho jaata hai svabhav aur jhagde kar baithegi kisi na kisi ke saath. 

Thankfully shadi ka inkaar to dono me so koi bhi nahin karega kyonki yeh sab jhanjhat fir se khada hoga.

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