शादी के पहले साल हो सकती हैं आपको ये समस्‍यायें

शादी के पहले साल हो सकती हैं आपको ये समस्‍यायें

Shaadi ka pehla nasha jab utarta hai to sab kuch gulabi nahin hota hai. Ek doosre ke saath adjust hone me samay lagta hai aur tab jaake khade hote hai samasya jin ko samajhdari ke saath sambhalna chahiye. Aisa dekha gaya hai ki pehla saal kathin hai aur kai tarah ke samasya ka saamna karna padta hai dono ko. 

Mahilao

  • Naye mahol me mahila ko sabse jyaada kathinai hoti hai. Is ke kaaran mood down ho jaata hai aur depression lag jaata hai. Agar sasural wale supportive na ho to yeh samasya aur badhti hai. 
  • Mahila apne pati se expect karti hai support. Voh agar routine kaam me lag jaata hai to patni ko neglected feel hona shuru ho jaata hai. 
  • Shaadi ke baad asli roop me log nazar aata hai jo shaadi se pehle nahi hota hai to yeh “after marriage shock” chote chote bhukamp macha dete hai patni ke dimag me. 
  • Patni agar apne pati par dependent hai to kharche ki baat me jhijhak rehti hai aur udasinta aur frustration ke feelings hote hai. 
  • Tension aur badle haalaat se swasth par bhi asar padta hai. Kai baar mahilao me dekha gaya hai ki shaadi ke baad vajan badhne lagta hai.

Purush

  • Purusho ko naukri ya business bhi karna hai aur apne patni par bhi dhyan dena hai to confuse ho jaa sakte hai. 
  • Purush apne kaam me itna laga rahe to voh patni ko neglect bhi kar sakta hai. Voh chahta hai ki patni understanding type ho aur jyaada expectation na rakhe aur patni chahti hai ki pati us ke saath samay de aur dhyan de, jo na hone par misunderstandings khade ho jaate hai. 

Dono ko

  • Agar arranged marriage hai to ek doosre ke saath communicate karne me thoda bahut jhijhak hota hai aur sach sach bolne se gabhraate hai ki kahin bura na lag jaaye. 
  • Agar couple akele rehte hai aur patni job bhi karti hai to ghar ka kaam aur office ke kaam se voh jyaada thak jaati hai. 
  • Paise ki baat aise me ek samasya khadi karti hai ki ghar ka expense kaise share kare? Pati hi ise sambhale? Charcha karna jaroori hai. 
  • Ek doosre ke relatives ke saath adjust hona, kuch aisa na kehna ki kisi ek partner ko bura lage aur aise sabhi baato par khas dhyan rakhna hota hai. Ek choti si baat hamesha yaad reh jaati hai aur chubhti rehti hai. 

Samay aur dheeraj ki jaroorat hoti hai ki in chote road block ko par kare aur aage gaadi smoothly chale.

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वरुण शर्मा, Nov 08, 2017

यदि पति-पत्नी अकेले रहते हैं तो उन पर आई जिम्मेदारियों के लिए आने वाली जो समस्याएं होती हैं घर के काम और बाहर के काम को मैंनेज करने की। ऐसे में दोनों में कलेश होने और रिश्तों में कड़वाहट आने का भी डर रहता है।