जाने कैसे बिना रिलेशनशिप के भी रह सकते हैं खुश

जाने कैसे बिना रिलेशनशिप के भी रह सकते हैं खुश

Ek samay tha jab shaadi hone tak ladki ho ya ladka, voh single rehte the. Aaj world upside down ho gaya hai. Shaadi ke pehle sab kuch ho jaata hai ya ho jaana chahiye yeh current thinking hai. Relationship nahin hai to aap jaroor vichitra hai aisa kahenge youngsters. Aage jaake vyakti ne shaadi nahin kiya to har tarah ke comments shuru ho jaate hai. Khud khush bhale ho magar duniye ke taane baane use dukhi bana sakti hai. Shadi ke laddu jis ne khaaya voh bhi khush aur na khaaya voh bhi khush. Log maante hai ki single vyakti par jimmedari kam hai aur voh jo chaahe voh kar sakte hai aur kam paise mein bhi gujara kar lete hai. Khair, baate to chalti rahegi rel gaadi ki tarah aur accidents bhi hoti rahegi magar mudde ki baat yeh hai ki relationship me na ho to bhi aap khush to jaroor reh sakte hai. 

  • Yeh soch ke dukhi na rahe ki logo ko ho gayi shaadi aur aap yoo ke yoo  reh gaye. Unhe dekhiye jo soche samjhe bina shadi kar baithe hai, pachtate hai aur ek dusre ko kaanto ki tarah chubhte rehte hai, chumne ke badle. Ho sake to achcha relationship dhoodhna behtar hai. Amrica aur anya western desho me logo ka yehi maanna hai, research ke anusar. Aur agar koi chahne vala na mile to pet jaroor rakhe: voh bilkul vafadar hai jo partners hamesha nahin hote hai. 
  • Yeh soch ke khush rahe ki aap ka samay aap ka hai aur aap voh sab kuch kar sakte hai jo aap ne socha tha. Soche aur amal me rakhe. Agar hobby hai to us ke peeche lage rahe. Ghoomne ka shaukh hai to har weekend par nikal jaaye sair par.
  • Agar aap career oriented hai, aur khaas kar ke lady hai, to shaadi jaroor rukavat la sakthi hai aur agar prem se shaadi na ho sake to arranged marriage karna jaroori nahin hai. Career ko aage badhaye. 
  • Yeh soch ke khush rahe ki aap azaad hai aur apne jeevan par poora kaabu hai. 
  • Aap chahe aise dost rakh sakte hai aur chahe tab get together kar sakte hai. Kya partner yeh allow karega? Dosti kabhi kabhi sab se behtar rishta ho sakta hai. Angrezi me kahavat hai 
  • Yeh sab kismat ka khel hai, aisa sochiye aur apne haalat ka positive side dekh ke aage chale. Jab likha hai tab shadi hoga, agar hona hee hai. Job hoga tab voh bhi chakh lena lekin us bhavashya ke baare me aaj kyon dukhi ho? 
  • George Eastman (Kodak company), Dr APJ Abdul Kalam, Isaac Newton, da Vinci, Beethoven, Oprah Winnfrey,  Jane Austen, Condoleeza Rice…sabhi ek khasiyat hai: unhone shaadi nahin kee. Inhone apna jeevan ek dhyeye ke peeche samarpan kar diya aur paaya mahanta.

Hawa ka rukh kabhi bhi badal sakta hai. Ho sakta hai kal aap relationship me doob jaaye. Is ki bhi taiyari rakhe, afsos nahin aur jeeye aaj ke liye.

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