ज़रूर जाने कम उम्र में शादी के फायदे और नुकसान

ज़रूर जाने कम उम्र में शादी के फायदे और नुकसान

Rajasthan ke kai communities me aur desh ke anya bhaago me bhi jab kanya ki umar 16 ki hoti hai to us ki shaadi kar dee jaati hai aur un yugal ko 22 saal tak me to 3 bachche bhi ho jaate hai. Is early age marriage me fayde bhi hai. Magar aise hee kam umra ki shaadi me nuksaan bhi hai. 

Pehle kam umra ki shaadi ke fayde dekh le: 

  • Kam umra me ek dusre ke saath adjust ho jaana aasaan hota hai. 40 ya 50 saal me mind “set” ho jaata hai aur aise fir se adjust karna mushkil ho jaata hai. 
  • Kam umra me dono physically fit aur fully energetic hote hai na sirf ghar ke kaamkaaj me, career me aur anya activities me but child upbringing me bhi. Bachcho ka dekhbhal bachcho ka khel nahin hai. Kam umar me raato ko jaagna aur yeh sab pareshaniyo se pasar hona behtar hai. Sochiye ki aap ko yeh 40 years me karna pade jab aap job ke heavy responsibilities ke baad ghar aate hai, kya yeh aasaan hoga? 
  • Mahila kam umra me jyaada saksham hoti hai healthy bachche paida karne me, jyaada fertile hoti hai aur us ke eggs high quality ke hote hai aur yehi haal purush ka bhee hai. Complications kam hote hai pregnancy aur child birth me.
  • Kam umra me shaadi karne me fadya ek yeh hai ki aap ke bache jab 12-14 saal ke ho jaaye tab aap bilkul young honge aur un ke saath physical activities me poore tarah se bhaag le sakenge. Jab voh college me aayenge to aap dono itne free ho jaayenge aur young honge ki second honeymoon par jaana ho to aasaani se soch sakte hai aur kar sakte hai. 
  • Kam umra me shaadi ke aur gaadi theek se nahin chali to dabbe ko alag karne ne aasaani rehti hai aur vohi dabbe kahin aur jud sakte hai. Dil ke ghaav bharne ke liye samay milta hai. 

Kam umra me shadi karne ke nuksan

  • Kam umra me shaadi kare to aap young age me freedom aur poora enjoyment khud nahin le sakte hai. Jyaada jimmedari aa jaati hai. 
  • Aap chahe itne highly educated nahin ban paate hai aur shayad yeh aap ke career me baadha roop ban sakti hai. Haalaki aap business jaroor kar sakte hai. 
  • Aisa maana jaata hai ki kam umra me paripakvata nahin hoti hai to bachcho ko theek se dekhbhaal nahin kar sakenge.
  • Kam umra me shaadi ki aur income sahin nahin ho to khud dukhi honge, patni dukhi hogi aur bachche bhi. Ghar me ladai jhagde ho sakte hai. 
  • Mahila agar kam umra me shaadi kar le to us ko kai health problems ho sakti hai. 

Fir bhi, ek perspective se dekha jaaye to kam umar me shadi ke fayde jaroor hai.

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Rahul, Dec 25, 2016

Meri ek cousin h 15 saal ki, uske sath muje shaddi krna h? cousin ke sath shaddi tkh rheaga!?